This is when I started my coaching journey... learning, developing and qualifying to be able to support other people who are experiencing difficult times, thoughts, feelings and emotions.

Overcoming Fear
I remember nearly walking away from one of the best training jobs I have ever had because of feelings of not being good enough.  Thankfully, a good friend talked some sense into me, and I attended the day long interview with 16 other applicants, and guess what I got the job.  I was defiantly out of my comfort zone, there was strong competition, and I was extremely nervous during that day. Life might have been vastly different if I had walked away from this opportunity because of the fear of not being good enough.

Inspired by Others
I have been inspired by those that have overcome physical and mental challenges.  Working as a tutor on the Aspire InstructAbility project training disabled people to become Fitness instructors was one of the most rewarding roles I have enjoyed.  The newly trained fitness instructor specialises in working with other disabled exercisers and other gym users. Watching a military triple amputee set up a concept rower with the help of prosthetics limbs and teach another student how to row was a humbling experience. I realised that day the old saying “there’s no such word as can’t” was true! It is only our belief of what we can and cannot do that either pushes us forwards or holds us back.

Conquering our Self-doubts
To follow the career of Rick Long, now a L3 Fitness Instructor and a World Disabled Strongman after losing his leg and the death of his TT racing partner in a terrible accident inspires me to keep working towards my own goals. To overcome sadness and loss we must focus on how to move forward with love for ourselves and others, helping others can really open our eyes to what we have to be thankful and grateful for.

Listening
Working with people and supporting friends with anxiety and depression, has taught me to listen and really understand, to be there to support and provide guidance, not advice.  I believe we all have the resources inside ourselves to make the changes we need to live a happier fulfilling life.  Just sometimes we need to listen so others can verbalise their thoughts and feelings to find their own solutions to the challenges they are experiencing.

Coaching is Empowerment
Coaching is not about needing to be fixed or saved or helped…. it is about becoming aware of yourself, how sometimes we can get in our own way, preventing us from achieving what we really want.  Everyone needs a coach in their corner from time to time; taking responsibility and learning to let go of what we cannot control develops empowerment and self-belief.

Do you repeat the same habits, patterns and end up in the same situations repeatedly? Do you have a dream for your life?  Are you scared to try? If there was one thing you could change about your life what would it be?

Training as an NLP Master Practitioner, Hypnotherapist and Time-Line Coach helped me to become a better friend, wife, mother, colleague, and human being!  It has provided me with clear direction, focus, success, happiness, and fulfilment. I am grateful for each day I can share my passion, knowledge, and skills with others.

Get out of your comfort zone and start saying YES to change, Yes to your dreams, YES to happiness and YES to greater fulfilment in your life.

Some years ago a dear friend and life coach asked me: “Why do you choose to feel that way?". After my initial thoughts of how dare you, I do not choose to feel this way, the situation is out of my control. I took a moment to reflect and thought maybe there is another way.

This was the start of a fascinating, challenging and rewarding journey of self-discovery, undertaking training in motivational interviewing, coaching and culminating in a master practitioner’s qualification in neuro linguistics techniques to help others learn and develop to be the best version of themselves.

So how often do you hear yourself say, I’m not very good at that, I’m not fit enough, slim enough, smart enough, clever enough?  My favourite limiting belief is I don’t understand social media, as I struggle with this new technology, social media and the World Wide Web.  Hey, there wasn’t even the internet when I did my degree!

We are often limited by our inner beliefs and yet why do we feel and think this way; is there really any evidence that we cannot achieve our dreams or potential. Surely, if we think differently, seek out the resources and training anything is possible – we are only limited by what we allow ourselves to believe.

Famous People Who Overcame Huge Obstacles | Wise Founder

• Bill Gates could not make any money.
• Steven Spielberg got rejected three times from film school.
• Simon Cowell record company went bust.
• Albert Einstein didn't speak until he was four years old. 
• Jim Carrey used to be homeless.

 
And what if we never achieve the dream, surely we’ve been more fulfilled making a positive journey in the right direction rather than listening to negative self-doubts.

If you have the desire to challenge those limiting beliefs then start today with “I can” and contact us for free career’s advice on how to develop a rewarding and fulfilling career in the health and fitness industry. 

My dear friend and life coach is Bevis Moynan of Magenta Coaching Solutions:

Bevis Moynan
Magenta Coaching Solutions
Email: [email protected]
Tel:: 07764758460
Web: www.magentacs.co.uk